Stef Sifandos

Relational Alchemist, Community Builder & Changemaker

The Honouring Of Life Creation4-7 min read

There lies tremendous beauty in the recognition of what it means to be fully connected to the creation energy. We all have great reverent capacity to create, however there is something unique about the women in our lives and their ability to create.

I will never claim to know this very specific form of creation energy through the feeling body of a woman.

I am certain though that the essence of this is found in all conscious and sentient beings; and all of us who are are aware enough to feel the fullness of life – irrespective of our gender identification. We all carry the essence of this power…

The pertinence rests in acknowledgement, in recognition and in homage to this very creation energy and as women hold this intently and overtly, we simultaneously are honouring the role of women in our lives.

By doing so, we open up an intimate dialogue around truth, connection, sharing, love and authentic bonding. When we respect this blessed gift, we allow ourselves to feel fully.

This unique creation energy allows us to thrive. But it can only do so when we revere its power, connect to its permeating wisdom and allow ourselves to be present fully to its gift of life devoid of harsh judgment and limiting and dividing critique.

It is in this presence and allowing that we gain a deeper insight in to what creation truly represents. It goes beyond reciprocal and intimate exchange.

This surrendering opens us to deepened expressions of love and connection – wisdom and an innate knowing beyond our current comprehension.

When we admire, pay homage to and value the state of life giving creation energy we are simultaneously honouring profoundly women, Earth, the feminine within, contrast and healthy expansion of self.

We begin to recognise the legitimacy of our souls, our connections to all that is. Men begin to behave in alignment with congruent truth, they are essentially inclusive in their action, non-segregist, non-dominating, not forceful and we begin to move away from extreme expressions of unhealthy fear-based dominance.

Men can feel again and not be shamed nor fearful for doing so. We become more powerful as we step in to authentic expressions of ‘VERTICAL VULNERABILITY’ and openness.

Women begin to feel safer, be open, trust, surrender to, give, receive and be loving towards self and others. We begin to play together in a way where fear does not reign supreme or where love’s eternal flame is dying because we are too paralysed to give life, love and affection.

Women communicate transparently, experience greater levels of equity and harmony in dynamic between all groups and sub-groups is felt and experienced socially, relationally, economically, geo-politically, spiritually and emotionally.

Yes, all because we begin to revere what has always been there – both within and ‘with out’ us. The choice is ours.

We have an opportunity to break thousands and thousands of years of a dominating paradigm and suppressive ideology that no longer serves our growth, nor expansion…

Are you ready to step through the fear that comes through moving in to transformation…?

One is always glad to be of service.

Stef Sifandos

Relational Alchemist, Community Builder & Changemaker

Stef Sifandos

Relational Alchemist, Community Builder & Changemaker



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