Stef Sifandos
Relational Alchemist, Community Builder & Changemaker

The Sacred Scent – A Tribute To Her4-7 min read

The fragrance of your beloved… You recognize her as she enters your space. Your eyes shut, yet your senses so open. So receptive to her scent. You can feel her approaching, feel her movement. However, you can only be receptive if you are open in heart, humble in gesture and connected in spirit.

She feels your presence, she feels your organism attuned to what awaits. Your heart in awe, your spirit in rapture, your body in a state of willingness, your mind in a state of openness.

That scent, her skin tingling, her softness radiating. Your eyes closed, your body on fire. Your mind fluid, awaiting, open, anticipating touch, prompting passion. You hold, you pause, you breathe. With each breath you are drawn deeper in to the allure of this fragrance.

A fragrance only you can identify, only you can recognize. A scent that transcends the physical senses, a scent that engulfs the cosmos yet only encapsulates a directed love so pure and potent it can only be understood by the ‘familiar lover’.

Where to from here? Is there a retracting from this fragrance that has permeated every strand and fiber of your consciousness? Can you live without this scent…? At the foothills of your sensory capacity to know your existence – this primal scent giving you meaning, layering substance to your existence, to your breath.

Your eyes still closed, yet your awareness more open than ever. This unique scent – all too familiar, all to present within your ‘soulscape’ of your humanity. A scent to elevate beyond human form in to the realm of the divine. A fragrance for the Gods, as it makes contact with your olfactory membranes.

Immediate and instant memories of your divinity, your ultimate and true self… Prompted by the enchantment and the power of her scent and her intention. A scent only from HER to YOU. A soul recognition and all through the transformative magic of her scent.

Your openness, your willingness to receive, to destroy archaic erected walls of disillusion, normative rigidity and old oppressive paradigms of attached and ego based control. To surrender to her presence, her wonder and her scent is your being called forth to GOD, to creation itself – to TRUST completely and surrender.

Her virtue calls the best of you, the worst of you… To be transmuted in the flame of eternal truth, for you to be left bowing raw and ‘full of emptiness’ and it is here… There is only one element of existence that matters, that bonds and that unifies… The resonating sound of oneness exemplified through the fragrant tincture that is GOD in human expression – the divinity of the feminine. From her to you.

One is glad to be of service.

Stef Sifandos
Relational Alchemist, Community Builder & Changemaker
Stef Sifandos
Relational Alchemist, Community Builder & Changemaker



The Talk To Trauma

We speak a great deal to the wounds of the past, the pain we have experienced ‘growing up’. We can be debilitated unknowingly by the pain we harbour within because we have been unable to release the tension certain experiences have caused us – the feeling of an endless mountain looms ahead.

Claiming One’s Self

We are constant works in progress. We are consistently evolving who we are. Perfection exists but only in a non-attached manner.

We are perfectly imperfect. That is the riddle. In my own life I have made many many mis-takes, many ‘failures’ and many choices that have not been conducive to my health or the health of my loved ones.

Explore Your Power

Growing up I always felt there was another way, but never thought I would free myself from the pain of a disconnected self.

I was hopeful, but disempowered. This frustrated me deeply as a man and so I lashed out to the world and lashed inwardly to my internal self.

You Cheated – Do You Tell?

Are you asking yourself: “What kind of question is this?”. I asked myself the same question for TOO MANY years, until I came face to face with a rude abruption of life that was so painful, I had no choice but to look deeply at my life and all that I was being.

On Being Safe

Perhaps there is nothing more beautifully profound and magical then knowing with all that you are that you are safe for those who are in your lives, particularly your beloved. That you will hold them through the chaos, the internal raging sea of volatility that we all experience as we grow, change and transmute ourselves at various points in our lives.

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