Stef Sifandos
Relational Alchemist, Community Builder & Changemaker

To Love Deeply All Women, We Must Love Profoundly One Woman4-7 min read

I was having a deeply profound conversation with a brother earlier and we were speaking to the path of sacred union and consciously relating to one another.

He aptly said something along the lines of going deep with a woman and being deeply committed to her allows us to love all women. This sincere reverence we may cultivate for our beloved is liberating.

There is something deep that unravels within each man when he commits to anything of substance. Particularly, when he connects to the power of intimate relating. The unbridled commitment shared sparks something cosmic and yet grounding in the feminine.

This unwavering clarity, certainty and commitment exhibited by the masculine liberates full feminine expression. To want to (in fact yearn to) traverse all layers and facets of relationship with a beloved is essentially opening to the collective force of the feminine.

The masculine is so driven and precise in presence when in the healthy king archetype. Imagine we take this precision and desire we are capable of and direct it in to conscious relating? We open up deep channels of intimacy, vulnerability, elevation and transcendence.

Love your woman with such tenacity, freedom and presence that the ripple effect is felt by the greater collective essence. When you’re there… be there!

When you’re in the presence of the authentic feminine be there with all you are – with such focus, willingness and openness that no-THING matters but that which is captivating your heart, body, mind and soul there and then.

When other women feel your dedication and commitment to your woman, they are inspired immensely, they FEEL hopeful and open to being seen. Importantly, your ability to harness this power, liberates any stagnant and sticky intentions and energy your unconscious self may hold.

This now becomes safe union. A union so sacred and transparent that is only directed by divine cosmic intention.

One is glad to be of service.

Stef Sifandos
Relational Alchemist, Community Builder & Changemaker
Stef Sifandos
Relational Alchemist, Community Builder & Changemaker



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